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Wishlist: How to Manifest a Specific Person

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This is my wishlist on how to manifest a specific person into your life! When it comes to love, the heart wants what the heart wants. Sometimes, you've just got to follow your heart and take a leap of faith in the person you want to be with.

One of the things I've noticed about witchcraft and the law of attraction community is that there seems to be a bias when it comes to manifesting a specific person. The school of thought on this is that it's unethical and there's free will involved, so let's talk about this, shall we?

First of all, when you like someone, did you know that you automatically start attracting that person to you? How many times in life did you overlook someone, only to start liking them because you picked up on the energy of their feelings for you? When someone likes you, you can't help but like them back!

Guess what friends? That's the law of attraction! When you like someone, you'll either repel them or attract them and it's really that simple.

Another important thing to note is that many people don't think it's ethically responsible to perform a love spell on a specific person. While it is important to witchcraft responsibly, if that's the way you're going about it, it's equally important to be clear with the universe on what you want.

If there's a certain person that you want, here is what is going to happen. If it's regarding a love spell or setting an intention to grab the attention of one specific person, that person will fall away if it's not meant to be.

If a relationship is not meant to be, if there's nothing there to work with, your spell will share those details with you. Suddenly, that person will fall away from you.

On the other hand, if this person is interested and there's something there to work with, then everything about the spell will fall seamlessly into place! That's the power of love magic, as it will either funnel love in or repel it away from you.

This will happen naturally as the spell rushes in like cool waters, flowing into the cracks and crevices where it needs to go. If it's meant to go somewhere with your special person, then it will! If it's not, it won't take long before you're privy to that information too.

The most important thing to make sure of is that you really want this person and what you hope to gain from this relationship. Do you want this person to be your boyfriend or girlfriend? Do you just want a date with this person?

As with all relationships, you've got to start somewhere, right? So, before performing a love magic spell or setting an intention, you'll really want to know why you want this person in your life so badly.

Personally, I feel like people manifest a specific person into their life all the time. It's called a schoolgirl crush and sexual attraction. With the right ingredients, I don't see any reason why you can't have the person that you want, wish for, and desire.

It's important to keep in mind that there's no such thing as free will. I mean, if you think about it, everything in your life is a direct mirror and reflection of you, both good and bad. That's the law of attraction in its purest form.

If, on the other hand, you do believe in free will then you might struggle with this concept a little more. You might enjoy reading, Wishlist: Writing Intentions and Everyone is You Pushed Out for more on how to grasp this concept!

Another thing to keep in mind, your crush may not like you. That's always a possibility, but should that be the case, that person will just fall away from you instead of in love with you.

Manifesting is a straightforward business, no matter how you go about doing it, whether it be through a powerful love spell or writing gratitude lists every single day! With that being said, let's jump into how you can go about attracting your love interest in your life.

Wishlist: How to Manifest a Specific Person

First of all, when deciding to manifest your secret crush, ask yourself why you specifically want this person. Write down all the qualities this person has that make you want them to be in your life. There's clearly something about them that sends you over the moon for them!

Next, decide how you want to manifest this person into your life. Do you want to create a magical love spell? If so, you might like to try my 2-minute love spell that can work for self-love or romantic love!

If you're not into witchcraft, you might like to create a heart chart for attracting the love of your life! This falls in line with writing out your intentions every morning and evening for your highest good.

If you want to manifest a special person into your world, you've also got to do a few things to ready yourself for a romantic relationship. Keep reading to make some tweaks and changes to your life that make it possible for you to be coupled up with someone!

How to Ready Yourself For a New Relationship (Feng Shui)
  • Make sure that you saved a side of the bed for your person
  • Empty out a drawer for them in your house
  • Practice self-love because self-love and romantic love go together!
  • Make room in your schedule for your lover to be
  • Do a major glow-up on yourself! Start that yoga practice, eat that plant-based diet, and buy that cute dress you've been eyeing for some time now.
  • Make sure your underthings are super-cute and attractive! In turn, this will make you feel sexy and confident about a new beau.
  • Make sure you have a clean home. It's deceptively simple, but a clean home can mean you're ready for someone you love to come knocking on your door!
  • Make sure you have money in the bank. Work on your pentacles so that you're ready to spend money on dates and outings.
  • Be the best possible version of yourself that you can be! It's super attractive to see someone who takes care of themselves and is always working on self-improvement.
Next, out with the old and in with the new! If you want this special person to come into your life (or back into your life!) then you'll want to let go of anything associated with this person that has caused you grief, heartache, and pain. This especially proves to be true if it's a person you have a history with.

One of the things I did for the full moon in Aquarius August twenty-twenty is to write down all of the things that I wanted to release about the person that I want to be with. In my case, I'm in separation from my twin flame due to a major tower moment in my life that he caused.

You can read more about it in, The Seasons of Life: Butterfly Life Cycles and Kundalini Awakening + Twin Flame Connections! I clearly have a history with this person and he caused me a lot of grief and now I'm in a place where I'm ready to reconcile with him.

In many cases, when we're trying to manifest a secret crush into our life, it's because we have already built a connection with the person. In these cases, it's better to write down and release everything this person did that hurt you rather than hold onto it.

There might be some cases where you can't get over the heartbreak the person caused you, no matter how hard you try. In this situation, it's really better to let this person go and try to move on from a painful relationship.

It's a decision you'll have to make for yourself. The ball is in your court. Are you able to fully forgive and let go of past disagreements? If so, then you definitely stand a chance in getting that person back into your life with ease and grace!

On the other hand, if you aren't able to get past the hurt or anger, then you'll have to let this person go! It's about doing what's best for you and your unique situation.

Nine times out of ten, unless it's a secret crush, the person you want to bring into your life is often a blast from the past. With that, comes a history that you'll either be able to forgive and forget, or you won't. It's really that simple.

Full Moon in Aquarius (August 2020) Releasement + Moon Readings

I realized last night, as I wrote a letter to the universe to moon angel Haniel, that I was still holding onto the fight that I had with my twin flame at the time of our separation. I was still holding onto the fact that he ghosted me when we were supposed to come together and talk it out.

I have Borderline Personality Disorder and him ghosting me the way he did really brought up a lot of feelings of rejection, unworthiness, and abandonment for me. With the full moon and Archangel Haniel, I was able to let go of all of those feelings and anxieties. It wasn't easy, but it was necessary if I wanted to move forward with this person.

So, that's something I highly recommend you do if you want to reconcile with someone from your past. The full moon is still in effect for the next few days, so there's still time to call on Haniel and let go of the anger and resentment this person may have caused you at some point.

This is a critical step in the process as you won't be able to bring this soulmate or twin flame relationship into a union without it. Why? It will create a major blockage where love energy should be flowing.

By the way, there's still time to signup for my intuitive moon readings! You can signup anytime, but with the full moon in Aquarius in full effect, you might like to get a gander at how this moon will transform and change you over the month of August.

What happens if you've expended a lot of time and energy into manifesting your one true love and still nothing happens? Not to worry! Another lesson I learned from Archangel Haniel, the angel of joy, is that means it's time to let go and surrender your wish into the universe.

How does one go about doing that? When you've reached a place where you feel like you've done all you can to bring this romantic relationship into your life, then you can let go of it by scratching it off your list of intentions.

This lets the universe know that you know this manifestation is done, complete, and you are ready to receive it! Don't just go through the motions though, really believe and feel that this person is coming into your life.

This is the part that a lot of people, including myself, mess up with when trying to manifest magic into their life. They think they have to keep writing intentions, saying affirmations, and spending every moment thinking about their manifestation.

Guess what? They don't! When you feel you've done all you can in this situation, the next step is allowing yourself to receive it with a heart filled with gratitude!

At this point, you'll "know" without a doubt that this person is coming toward you. You've done the work and have picked up all the signs along the way, now it's time to get out of your own way! You do that by letting go and surrendering.

This signals to the universe that your hands are cupped and ready to receive your gift, which in this case is a person that you feel would make a good addition to your life. Simply close your eyes and imagine your favorite person in the cup of your hands. The universe will have no choice but to follow your signal!

After completing this step, just be ready with an open heart and mind. The person you asked for may come in differently than you expect, but make no mistake, they will come toward you.

To open up your heart chakra, you may enjoy reading, Working With Archangel Chamuel to Open the Heart Chakra With Romance Angels! It's highly important to keep an open heart when trying to win over a crush or an old lover.

Manifesting a specific person is on your wishlist! This guy or girl made it into your herbal love spell or to the top of your list of intentions. That means something!

Make yourself ready and available for them. The universe is delivering your special person to your front door wrapped in a cute bow!

The universe and romance angels are doing the hard part for you. All you have to do is make space in your life for them and room in your heart. Once you do that, the rest is up to you!
Hi, I'm Laurali! I write about moon magic and seasonal shifts and all things faery. about me


  1. Those attractive butterfly seems calming. Anyway, thank you for writing this. I have also wrote an article on how to manifest a specific person. I hope whoever is reading this likes it too. https://silverimagination.com/how-to-manifest-a-specific-person/

    1. Thanks so much! The butterflies are my spirit animal:) I read your article and it was beautifully written and well thought out. I loved reading your personal stories and anecdotes too.

      - Laurali 🦋


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