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What Are Tower Moments + Mini-Tower Moments (Tower Tarot Card)

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What are tower moments + mini-tower moments (tower tarot card)? I've been thinking about writing about the tower tarot and this just happens to coincide with what I'm experiencing at the moment.

This is good because it will be fresh in my mind on what it feels like to experience the tower moments of life.  When you are going through a spiritual awakening, there will be many.

Tower moments were aptly named for the Tower card in the tarot deck.  It's a dreaded card, that when it shows up it means there is going to be a huge upheaval in your life.  

Whatever the disaster, it will be life-changing in some way.  You'll be able to look back and see that your life was never the same again.  That's the power of the tower card.

But, the secret of the tower card energy is in the transformation.  One day, you'll be able to see that the tower moment changed your life for the better.  There were blessings and hidden gems in the situation.  

However, it doesn't feel good when you are going through it.  Just think of the words major upheaval and visualize the images that come to mind.  It isn't pretty.  

Sometimes, you might get a reversed tower tarot card in your reading.  When that happens, it's what I like to call a mini-tower moment, where disaster is narrowly avoided.  That combined with the sun tarot card brings clarity to your situation.  
If you were to get the sun card, the tower, and the two of cups, it could mean clarity on a relationship, that brings shocking news with it.  Well, that's exactly what happened to me.

I notice sometimes when I do my own personal tarot readings, I tend to overlook the signs that are right in front of me, while being objective.  All weekend long, I kept getting the tower card, the sun card, and the two of cups.  

I knew what it meant, but there was a part of me that was still hopeful.  I was looking at my oracle cards with rose-colored glasses, hope, and cheerful optimism.  

I wrote in, Working With Archangel Uriel For Enlightenment During Twin Flame Separation, about a tarot reading I had ordered because I was at a crossroads in a relationship.  I was trying to decide if I should move on from my person or not.

I ordered a one question tarot card reading by Liz from Arcane and Stellar!  She's my go-to girl for all readings.  She's refreshingly honest, straightforward, and handles readings with sensitivity.  

I got the information that I needed to hear in order to make my own decision about this relationship.  I decided to move forward, feeling crushed at that moment.  This was my reversed tower moment.  

This was the mini-tower moment of them all.  I finally got the clarity to move on from something that was kinda making miserable.  

In this case, as much as it hurts right now, there are blessings in this situation.  I feel another major glow-up with Archangel Jophiel coming on!  First, I've got to process what I'm feeling.

It's not that I found out anything bad.  It was more the energy of the person sitting on the fence, undecided, for what could be a long time.  The hurting comes with the letting go and surrendering this situation.

There were a lot of moon cards, the high priestess, and slow-moving pentacles in my tarot reading.  There was just a ton of confusion and uncertainty surrounding the situation that helped me to make a firm decision.  

That's really all that I want to share about my one question tarot reading at this time.  It still feels very raw and fresh to me.  

Writing this has helped me to discover that there are blessings in tower moments.  When the card shows up in our lives, it's usually to bring us something better.

One thing that did come out of the reading was that new love is coming my way.  I just need to take a step back and go into hermit mode and collect my thoughts first.  

As much as that should make me feel happy, it doesn't.  The last thing on my mind is a new love interest.  Apparently, the next guy won't be so confusing.

Right now, I just want to take a step back and focus on me.  That's exactly what a tower moment brings to the table.  It helps you refocus your energy somewhere better.  

I've gotten to the point by now where I find myself cringing but embracing the tower moments.  There have been so many over the past few years.  

I think that's really the only thing you can do to get through the tower moments.  You just have to buckle up and be safe because you're in for the wild ride of your life.  

Twenty-twenty has been one tower moment after another, for me and everyone.  I feel like all I can do sometimes is hold on tight.  But, it's the tower moments that make or break us.  

Right now, I feel heartbroken and completely crushed.  I also feel a little foolish.  I mean, how many times on this blog did I write about him being my twin flame?  

Now, I'm not really sure what to believe.  I am flummoxed by this whole situation yet somehow feel relieved.  There's a big part of me that's glad it's over.  

That's what a mini-tower moment feels like.  It's a reversed tower moment that makes you question everything.  

I keep wondering if I'll be able to trust myself again after this.  Will I be able to trust my intuition now that this tower upheaval has happened?  At this point, I don't know.

There's a lot of uncertainty in tower moments because you don't know what the future looks like.  You have no idea what lies ahead of you after your life changes seemingly overnight.

I'm most worried about getting involved with someone again.  I don't really know how many more times I can go through this.  It's like there's a huge part of me that's lonely and wants love, but there's a bigger part of me that doesn't want to risk my heart again.

That's tower card energy at it's best.  It makes you want to take a step back and reflect on things.  Right now, I'm in no hurry for love.

I want love, but right now, I just want to focus on self-love.  I need time to heal and mend myself.  I'm ready to let this tower moment change me with fiery transformative energy. 

I can't really imagine anyone in my future, except myself.  So, I'm going to take this time and learn how to step into my power and really mean it.  Thanks for reading! xo

Hi, I'm Laurali! I write about moon magic and seasonal shifts and all things faery. about me


  1. I felt like I was reading exactly what I am going through. Exactly. I’m so glad this post popped up in my google search. Always comforting to know that there are other souls out there who have/are going through similar scenarios. Those bloody Tower moments!


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